unspoken truth: even in the queer community, it’s exponentially easier for girls who say that they are interested in all or multiple genders to find partners (romantic, sexual, even just companions) than girls who are only or primarly into other ladies.
i’m not saying this to complain or pass judgement or shame or because i even care that much per say. get with whoever you want, i’m not here to “police yr identity” or get myself involved with yet another round of oppression olympics. srsly, hook up with whoever you want. however, i do think it’s notable that only people who ever seem to notice this rather obvious trend nowadays are the lesbians who have been alienated by sex posi culture in which male sexuality almost always seems to be posited to the front….
(i mean i actually am not nearly as rigid as i present myself as on this blog…ten years ago, “homoflexible” would have been the correct term lol lol…i’m writing this cuz ive had a series of conversations in the past few days in which i’ve had to point out this seemingly obvious fact…..everybody always seems to forget that lesbian invisibility is an actual thing because god those dykes are sooooo passé, aren’t we all collectively past that????)